Game Rant

I being an older gamer want so badly to play elden ring. Unfortunately the difficulty of it with nothing for the (not so quick) gamer has to miss out on such an amazing game. Gutted. We aren't all hard core mashers it's a bit discriminating against the not so good player. This is also the first time I've ever said anything online before so I'm being very brave. (Yes I am old but love open world rpg ) how hard is it to have all difficulties so more people can play it? The hard core gamers can still have their crazy hard game and it opens it up to all of us oldies left behind. ?